It was a very smart move of The Almighty to create the mind.
Freedom is alone; not lonely. Do not cling. Do not hold. Do not feel
responsible; for the mishaps. It is not you who are running the Universe.
Troubles, doubts are natural; allow it to come…do not put hindrance. Do never
try to know how the Universe moves? You have simply to act...The Act is already set for you. If separation
is inevitable; welcome it; yes, it might leave behind bad taste; swallow it,
accept it.
You are not responsible for your deeds. You are merely playing your part. It’s
very strange to maintain a relationship for the whole life; it is absurd. You
are not sure about the next moment what is going to happen; and you expect a
relationship for the whole life.
The word Marriage itself sounds strange. You
take an oath to stay together, in harmony for the whole life; indeed, it is absurd. If
it works it is fine, else, it is disturbing. You may try to adjust; and for the
rest of your life go on adjusting forever; you have to take a decision; before
your marriage.
The first few months are OK; but after a few years, or months, trouble
starts. Now children are there; you do have a responsibility towards them. You
have to, and you should look-after them. Do not trouble your children; they are
delicate. So, what to do?
This is what you have to think before marriage. If you
have decided to go for a marriage, and you take The Oath; come what may you have to
maintain it. The day you marry; your life either starts; or that very moment your life finishes for good. Here you have to decide; you cannot claim it was in your
destiny. Because, while creating you, The Almighty has given you a power to
think; understand, and then decide.
It was your decision to marry; do not blame
God. Human life is full of contradiction; and that’s the beauty. Remove contradiction
from your life; and your life becomes becomes dull. So, what to do if you are
married? Follow the mundane rule; and maintain your marriage till the end...there
is no other alternative is left for you.
Your mind is very cunning. It was a
very smart move of The Almighty to create the mind. Whatever situation you are
in; gradually you adjust; your mind adjusts. Your mind creates favorable
situations for you. And that is why even amid adversity; people do laugh.
So,
it is all your mind game; apparently yes, but deep within No...it is your life;
and you have full right to live it with joy. Now the question is…How to live
with joy? Problem with problems is; one problem finishes, another problem arises; what
to do? And this mark of interrogation keeps following you. Sometimes life becomes a
problem...How to live?
Again, there is a question mark? Enlightenment; Celibacy;
Liberation, can be attained in a family life too. It depends how you are
looking at your life? You have to meditate; to understand life. You have to
judge yourself; that under any circumstances, come what may; you will keep your
marriage life healthy…then you may go for it. If you are not convinced; if you
cannot tackle hardship…then you may not marry.
Remember freedom is alone; not
lonely. You are simply a part of a big game; you are simply acting your
part; the day this realization comes to you, whether you are married, or unmarried; that very moment you are liberated.
Ashoka
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