Meditation; Eldorado; and You…

Somewhere in your imagination; somewhere in your dream; there exists your Eldorado, you are there; you do not wish to come out; but the dream was broken; and you found yourself lying on your bed; sweating. 

Somewhere in your dream you saw an amalgam of your desire; the real you found in your dream. You were there; till you were dreaming; and that is important. Whether it was a false notion; or it was a dream; or it was a hallucination; whatever it was, important part of it is that; you were there. 

At least in your dream you were there. In real life you are never here; you are continuously thinking. Your mind is alive, taking you somewhere; you are dead. You are never here; that dream of yours was better; at least you were there.

When you awake; when the moment you met reality; the moment you met real you, you started missing the real you, you started missing the point; you were somewhere else thinking about your dream. And perhaps that was the moment...The Universe was created. 

And that’s why there are so much unrest around you; because you are continuously missing you. Unless you realize you; how you will come to know the real meaning of your life? How you will come to know; whether, really there exists any Eldorado? 

Yes, Eldorado exists. And there are endless Eldorado is living alive inside you in reality. But for that you have to look within. And that is the problem; how you will look within, there is no time; you are busy setting your goal; you are busy achieving your target; you are busy planning your future. 

What is going inside you you are not aware of it; what is going to happen next moment, you are not aware of; and you are busy planning your future unknown to you; you do not know whether there exists any future or not, you do not know; because you are busy planning for the unknown. 

This is tragic; and this is the reason; why there are so many tragedies around. You have made your life a tragedy. For peace; for happiness; you have to come out of it; you are dreaming when you are awake; and you are meeting reality when you are sleeping; this is strange. 

Meditate; start doing meditation. Meditation will help. You have to be awakened; and for that meditate. Eldorado exists; you can live there; you can feel Eldorado; that too when you are awakened; not in your sleep; not in your dream; in reality you can live in Eldorado. But for that you have to be awakened. 

Now the question arises; who will awake you? And the answer is you; you will awake you. And this unique realization comes through meditation. Eldorado in not imagination; Eldorado is not a myth; Eldorado is a reality; and that reality is inside you. Just cast a deep glance within; and find Eldorado in happening; alive there. 

Ashoka           

Meditation; Time; Past; Future; and You…

Effortless remedy is lying inside you; and you created havoc; you made atom; for peace happiness. 

Something is missing in the above title. And that missing point is you; you are the missing point. And from this missing point onward; you started missing life; you started missing You. That missing point is, in between Past and Future; Present. Which does not exist for you; you are never here at present; either you are in your past; or you are in your future; thinking; planning something. 

Existence; Life is here; in the present, and you are roaming somewhere in your future searching life; searching happiness; searching peace; or you are stuck somewhere in your past. Present; you are never here.  Wind is blowing here; touching you; untouched you are somewhere. 

You are used to live; to enjoy dead life; hence you never noticed; you never thought; you never realized that you are living a dead life. Entire creation; creation of the universe happened here; this very second; and you are not aware of it; that what is lying here in a moment. 

The present is important. Through meditation you reach a state where even Present do not exist. And the place where even present do not exist; there exists Now; and even Now exists in a moment. Very small moment; contains the entire existence; universe; you;  in its embrace. And you are somewhere else. 

How do you think happiness; realization will ever touch you. You have never felt your life; you are busy in making your career and solving others problems; in your thought. Continuously you are thinking; planning something; and life is passing by unnoticed. 

And when misery strikes you start searching some God to come to your rescue; or you search astrologers to come to your rescue. You start contacting holy books; you start visiting church; mosque; temples for a remedy. And when you are busy doing all this nonsense; life keeps passing by with your remedy; unnoticed. 

You stay devastated. And precisely this is the reason for your unrest; disturbance; all over the globe. The remedy is inside you; you have to stay for a while; and you have to float in a moment. God has created everything in such perfection that you do not have to do anything for peace, happiness; you simply have to float.

Effortless remedy is lying inside you; and you created havoc; you made atom; for peace; for happiness. When the universe is sitting on nuclear power; atom; then the result is before you; any time, any moment total disaster; destruction awaiting to strike; and you are searching peace, happiness, device; somewhere in your future. 

One more very effective remedy I have come across; law of attraction attracts; and what is that; let us; feel this...

God is here is inside you; and you are searching God somewhere else. You have refused to stop; because now you are so much used to this nonsense that you cannot stop; you will not believe. For believe you have to argue; and when you are convinced by reason; you will believe; and then your pilgrimage starts; you start visiting religious places; you take refuge in religion; you start searching God all over; and God; life  keeps passing unnoticed. his is what your belief has given you. 

How peace will come to you; happiness will come to you? You have to control your mind; and for this; you have to meditate. You have to understand life; and for this you have to meditate. You have to know you; and for this you have to meditate. Unless you are relaxed in awareness nothing will happen; and relaxation comes through meditation. 

Relax; stay in a moment; meditate; float and meet your Life...all the best...

Ashoka    

Meditation; Sex; Importance of Living and You…

Living is important and it is an art; you must live your life; else there is no point in living. If you are not living your life then there is no point in living. Then this life is a waste. You have been living your life; at least this appears to you. This appears to you that you are living your life; and this appearance is false.

You are not aware of it that you have been continuously missing your life. You never realize; what life is; you never realize what sex is. You have been condemning sex; to you this is something bad; you have been taught in this way. 

The realization of Sex is the first step towards Nirvana; celibacy. And because of your ignorance you have been condemning sex. Sex used in a wrong way, without understanding it; is bad. And you have been doing it in the wrong way without understanding it; and the resulting diseases; other harmful things keep happening and these so called moralist kept yelling at you; ‘look it is bad’; and after being convinced by it that sex really is bad; you went on living your life; thinking that you have understood what life is. 

Moralist; Religion kept destroying the fabric; and you accepted it considering it bliss. And you kept missing life; you kept missing the fabric. Life is purpose to you; a goal has to be achieved; without goal, without ambition life is useless; then someone said ‘without goal life is like a ship without radar’. And that was the missing point.

Nature has no purpose; Wind has no purpose, no aim; no ambition. And nature is so beautiful; full of health; full of life. Put purpose in nature; and the very second nature will lose its charm. Something has to be done; and without understanding what has to be done you went on destroying the fabric; the beauty of your life. Result entire life became ugly; dead; and since you are not aware of it; your ignorance made it beautiful; a false facade. 

This myth has to be broken. Meditate; meditation will take you closer to life. Acceptance of everything whatsoever is coming to you; without any discrimination is life. Life is simply life; no purpose; no goal; no ambition; there is nothing to be achieved; simply live your life; the way it is coming to you. Do not disturb your life. 

When you are in sex at; stay there. Sex is full of life; stay in the sex act; do not think; do not move in your future planning something; searching some goal. Sex is not a purpose; sex is natural. There is nothing to achieve in sex. Sex itself is full of all ingredients; you do not have to put anything extra. When in the sex act stay there.

Sex is life; live it; without any purpose. The day this question came to your mind that ‘what is the meaning of life’; you're missing the basic fabric of life; started. Life has no purpose; life is nature; just stay there; without any force; without adding anything.

And the day you start living your life in awareness; staying aware...importance of living life will be unfolded before you for the first time. The true meaning of life will come to you. What is life; in its actual, real face will appear before you. 

Living life without understanding has no meaning; then life will disturb you. And precisely this is the reason; why there are so many unrest around; people are killing each other in the name of religion; there is no trust; there is no peace around. 

Everybody is disturbed; rich is not happy; they have their own worries; poor is not happy; they have their own problems. 

Tough time; good time keeps coming; accept both with grace. If disturbance is coming; stay disturb, look at your disturbance, your sorrow; accept it with a grace; and it will not bother you. If happiness is there; take it in a natural way; do not get affected; then your happiness will not bother you with a thought that what will happen if it go away. 

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Stay normal; and to stay normal; accept abnormal; live your life fully; accepting life as it is. 

Ashoka            

Meditation; Wisdom; Morality; Character and You…

And to feel the flow of nectar inside you; you have to drink poison too; without any discrimination; with the same grace. Stay naked; and the life will touch you; wisdom will touch you; morality will touch you. But for that you have to stay naked; no clothes; no knowledge; no character. 

Only absolute nakedness will bring wisdom to you. And in order to understand you; forget wisdom; forget morality; stay amoral. You have to forget everything; drop everything; known, knowing drop everything. Let the Life touch you first; feel the touch; stay with the touch. Acceptance of everything; right; wrong; good; bad; holy and sin everything; acceptance of everything as it is, without any discrimination; is wisdom.

And to reach this state; you have to accept plus and minus both. You simply cannot differentiate without knowing what is right and what is wrong. What appears right to you might become wrong for others. It is difficult to choose; you have to accept both. And while accepting stay unaffected.

Living life as it is the way it is coming to you is the mantra. You have no other way. Morality; Character whatever you have learned from your surrounding drop it. When everything is dropped; when you are standing completely naked; no cloths; no knowledge; in that moment of nothingness Wisdom come to you; whatever is happening in those moments is wisdom; is morality. 

Till now you have learned a very different meaning of morality. If all are having good character what will happen to those with bad character; both are here; both are surviving; wind is touching to both of you; the wind never discriminates that you possess a good character so it will touch you only. Nature never discriminates. Nature is amoral. The greatest wisdom is with nature; and you are a part of nature.

You have to understand this first; you have to understand you first; know who are? You have been doing just the reverse; you have acquired knowledge what is good and what is bad; and then you are choosing good one; without knowing what is good and what is bad. This choosing the path without knowing is the problem. Ignorance is certainly not bliss here; you have to know; and this knowing only will open many doors for you. 

Your division between right and wrong is false; even after understanding you start giving too much load on character; wisdom; morality. And life becomes dull; meaningless; without any color. To make life more colorful, which life actually is, you have to accept all; life as it is without any decimation; accept life as it is. Your acceptance of life as it is; is wisdom; morality character. Life is unique. 

Life itself possesses everything; you have to recognize it; you have to realize it. And this realization comes through meditation; meditation is very close to life. 

You have taken birth with gifted power; only you have to recognize this power in you. You possess everything; you do not have to borrow anything from outside; you have everything built inside you. Self-realization is must; and to realize self; meditate. Meditation is powerful; to realize it...touch it once; seriously. 

Ashoka     

Meditation; Suicide, God, Prayer and You…

Time; Person; and Place these three things are important; one has to move accordingly; there is no other way. 

You seek refuse; it’s human nature; when you fail from all sides you seek refuse. And you surrender yourself to God. Your prayer starts; ‘whatever you give I shall be happy; whatever you have given I am happy; keep protecting me’. It’s a very weak characteristic.

It differs from person to person; what is your desire; whatever is your aim you pursue it religiously; and when you reach the saturation point; when nothing is left; God, Prayer only remedy appears convenient to you; left for you and you fall flat; and God never listens to you, and your prayer is never answered. Now what to do even prayer; God has left you. 

Sometimes you are taking extreme step, and you commit suicide. Amid adversity, stay for a while; ask yourself what do you want; look at your resources; look at your capacity and then decide what to do; whether you should move ahead; are you going in a right direction; or you should stop here and start pursuing whatever is suitable for you; it is entirely upon you to decide.

No God or prayer is needed here; it is simply you who have to decide; what to do? If you are in the right direction, as per your capacity then you are in a right direction; nothing can stop you; God or prayer is not needed. 

Mostly; it is you who are at wrong; a wrong decision without judging your capacity. And then either you blame God; my prayer is not answered, or you blame the stars, your luck; stop blaming look at yourself. Understanding God or prayer is far ahead; it is not possible for you to understand; or realize; or meet God. You concentrate on yourself; know your strength; look at the circumstance around and then move. 

Time; Person; and Place these three things are important; one has to move accordingly; there is no other way. Move in a smart way; do not behave dull. You are the creator. You are the winner; you are the looser. It is always you; God does not come in between.  

When the mind is disturbed, which is natural there is nothing to worry about, you start praying; and it soothes your mind; do that there is no harm. Prayer keeps you fit to move ahead; Prayer is your exercise; not remedy. Remedy is you; and you are in a right direction when you are using prayer as a device to keep you fit; and you are praying honestly; that is the right way; right direction. 

Life is strange; someone has become successful; someone has to be unsuccessful. You should always remember that; you are bigger than success and unsuccessful. You are far ahead; know you; know your strength. 

Human being is the most beautiful creation of the Almighty. You are gifted in this life; hence you must use it in a right way. And you can only use it in the right way; when you discover yourself; knowing you is a must. If you are awakened then there is no need for suicide.

Do not escape; suicide is escape. It is extremely disturbing state of your mind when you take this drastic step suicide. Finding no other escape route you commit suicide. 

Accept life in Toto. Whatever is coming your way accept it. You have no time to look around and lament; forget failure and keep moving. 

This; keep moving under any circumstance; is meditation. This; keep moving; staying awake; alert; this method is meditation; because here you are staying in a moment fully alert awaken. Practice meditation; use any technique coming your way. 

Your work; you're moving ahead without getting affected under any circumstance; is your prayer and your this prayer never fails; God has to answer. 

Believing in you; is believing in God. The method to move ahead under any circumstance keeping the grace intact; is silent; and the silence is extraordinarily powerful; and when you are moving ahead without getting affected by failure considering it your prayer; then your this Prayer has to be answered; because here you have compelled Almighty to listen you. 

Ashoka         

Meditation; Helpless State; Expectations and You…

Always remember, it is written somewhere that; 'with self-belief if you challenge the history; planets in the universe will change their position; in your favor'.  

When you are lying low you are expected to create miracles. Without understanding your pain people expect everything from you. Expectations become high; when you are lying low.

You are supposed to do everything; you are the reason of your miseries; you are the reason of your failure. If you are not successful; either you are not talented; or you have no proper contact; and you are also a victim of your previous life’s sin; and that is why God is punishing you in this life; in your previous life you were left Scott free, by this so called God, and you went on committing numerous sin; and you are punished in this life for your previous life sin. 

And you have to go through all kinds of nonsense in this life if you are not successful; the only success succeeds. Why miseries comes to certain people and why others are happy go lucky type; the reason is not known; one can fabricate like previous life’s deeds, or lack of proper talent; someone is poor, someone is reach why so, is not known. 

Nature has its own peculiarity. Many things depend on the particular atmosphere when you have taken birth. Yes, one thing is common, and that is every human being is being equipped with tremendous power, yes, you have the power to change your misfortune and make it a good fortune.

But that is not easy to recognize and use in a proper way; and it is certainly not a rocket science either. It is difficult because your mind has been corrupted by many false things since the beginning; the natural process of growth of a child was killed by many restrictions; given by society; and what are those which corrupts a child's growth is another subject it might become lengthy here; hence on this topic, in my next article. 

Using your mind in a correct way like; under any circumstance do not lose your cool; your patience. Your bearing capacity should not only be extremely powerful but it should possess extraordinary powers. Do not let your mind, divert, or get you affected by your hard times. 

Accept your adversity; stay untouched and then continue your fight for the justice; it is your birthright. You will get results; it is your determination which will bring you your desired result. You have to work hard; plane your efforts; give your best try; and you will get it. 

You can change your misfortune you have this capacity; you have this power with you. Always remember, it is written somewhere that; with self-belief if you challenge the history; planets in the universe change their position; in your favor. You have to kept awaken; stay alert; stay in a moment; go on hitting the target; and the victory is yours.

Meditate; meditation makes you strong; capable.  Do never try to get rid of from your helpless state; on the contrary use your helpless state as your winning streak; every minus point in you, make it your wining strength, and go on making a positive effort; till you win. Instead of caring about people’s expectation; you must think what you expect from you; and if this point is clear to you; you are a sure shot winner.  

Ashoka 

Meditation- Just pick-up; what you want from life, it is yours...

And if needed fight with The God...

Meditation, Faith, Believe, Helplessness; Refuse…just pick-up what you want from life…

You have to understand first; what do you want from life? And just keep moving under any circumstances, keeping the grace intact; keeping the enthusiasm intact, and do not wait for the God or anybody; just pick-up your desired result it is yours.

Unless you believe; unless you have faith in you, or in God; nothing will happen. You have to have faith, believe either in you, or in God; or in both; then you will get your desired results; this 'then' in between you and the result is a problem. Faith and believe is important, you will have to have it; and nothing is in your have; you have to make an effort and the result is not in your hand; this is irony; this is strange. But this is the trend.

You are taught in this way you have to lead your life. Success; happiness depends on your faith and believe.  You are helpless; the result is not in your hand; you have to wait. After giving your best effort with full faith and believe; the result is not in your hand, you have to wait; what a shameless funny situation! And you keep waiting; the result will bring happiness. 

You are powerful; fight for your right, come what may fight for your right; if needed fight with The God. Do not give in; accept what is against your nature; you should live your life as per your nature; there is no harm. How you will meditate if you are not happy? How you will learn techniques of meditation, if you are not satisfied? And how your meditation will come to you if you are shaken badly; with absolute failure. 

Every hope; every desire is crushed; in such a situation, how you will meditate? How you will talk to God? Let the God crush you; you won’t say if! You succumb to injury under any circumstance Your bearing capacity decides your life. Your sustaining capacity decides your future.

You never say die attitude keeps you moving. Under any circumstance do not stop; keep moving. Just keep moving under any circumstances, keeping the grace intact; keeping the enthusiasm intact, and do not wait for the God or anybody for your desired result, for your happiness; just pick-up your desired result it is yours. 

God has no right to snatch it from you; just pick it up; it is yours. Forget believe; forget faith; forget God convince yourself; have faith in you; with full determination keeps moving; and if needed; forget meditation. 

Your meditation, your prayer; your duty is to keep moving. It is not easy; people break; people commit suicide. Complete failure is not easy to digest. And the person who has digested complete failure; and the Man who has digested adversity looking into its eye is the real Hero; the real winner. 

You have to understand first; what do you want from life? You must know what is wining; and what is defeat. Never accept defeat; come what may never accept defeat. And this very never say die attitude of yours makes you victorious. 

Winning matters; under any circumstance you must win. God; circumstance; your own mind keeps testing you; keeps luring you; keeps deceiving you; you must understand this and do never fall into the trap; you must get what you want; what you have struggled for so bitterly. 

Do not get trapped; do not allow your thirst to get quenched with a few drops of hallucination water ; if only nectar will quench your thirst, then get satisfied only when you get Nectar to quench your thirst. 

If you are serious; mark my words; God will come to you; and the day God comes to you, you will realize that you are God; and when this awakening come to you; Go and just pick-up your desired result; all the best. 

Ashoka

Meditation and Believing in Unknown…

The most strange and unknown part of this Universe is, your entire answer is lying in unknown; what is not known is holding your secret. 

The supreme power; The Creator is unknown. Your entire move in your life is not known; what is going to happen the next moment is unknown. The mystery, the secrecy is not known. And you are born with a mind so powerful that it keeps controlling you; and your mind keeps telling you what to do and what not to do. Your mind keeps telling what is good and what is bad; and in spite of possessing such a powerful mind the secret is unknown to you. 

Who ever has created this universe, or whatever way the existence of this universe came to the surface is not known? You believe in science; you believe in God; you believe and your disbelief apart, the Mystery has been yet not known.

This is unique; the more mysterious this universe becomes the more beautiful it appears. Whoever has created this universe; or whatever way this universe came to the surface apart; this universe keeps challenging you; accept the challenge. And while accepting the challenge;stay alert; awaken. The more you try to unfold the mystery the more mysterious it becomes; hence, stop trying to unfold it; simply enjoy the mystery. 

This unknown is beautiful and powerful; nobody can invade.Let it stay as a mystery. Believe is unseen and believe is powerful; you believe in anything; the very word believe makes you more handsome; you believe in God and that give you a feeling if security; you need to be secure; and at this point your trouble starts. 

You do not believe in God,or if you do not believe in anything; you should realise that you do not believe in anything is your belief in disbelief; you believe in disbelieve.

Death and Birth have not known you. Your own body is not in your control; your hunger is not in your control; your thirst is not in your control; when you feel hunger or when you will feel thirsty is not known to you? 

Believing in unknown comes to your rescue when you are amidst rough wind. Believe comes naturally to you; effortlessly.  When nothing works; believe works. The power of the universe knows everything. Patience is another unique and extraordinary powerful arm to you. 

You go for a prayer without knowing anything about God. Forget everything and start communicating with you; self talk, self communication is important. This communication with you holds the secret. Every answer, all answers to this mystery are lying inside you. 

You are the most precious gift to this universe; and to realize this; meditate. Through meditation you realize you. And though you start communicating to yourself; and when amid deep communication with you, without words; without religion; without education, ask you the secret of Power of those believing in unknown; and you will see the mystery is being unfolded before you; deep within you. 

Ashoka     

Meditation and Parenting…

You are a unique creation of the master strategist; God. The most important and precious part of your life is parenting; how to look after your children? God has sent a life through you; and He has made you the custodian.

How to look after your kids; is important. Do not force; take care, be cautious, keep a watchful eye all the time; but do not force; do not impose yourself; do not disturb the natural process of their growing up. Let the child develop their own instinct. They have everything inbuilt. Nothing has to be added. 

God is mysterious; there is no prove whether God is there or not; it’s a feeling; its faith; depends upon you to believe it or do not believe it; you are free to choose. 

Creation of human being is a mystery; everything which requires a child to develop, grow in a young age, then become old and they go away; this entire process is mysterious; nobody knows, what it is. And this has been created in such a beautiful and smart way. 

There is absolutely no fault; science can fail; but this science is impossible to fail; it cannot fail; neither this mystery can be unfolded. Everything; all required machinery is inbuilt; you do not have to add anything; hence watch your child growing; do not disturb the process. 

Out of your love, excitement, caring; do not add anything extra of yours; you have to just watch. But your surrounding around, your society, your religion, won’t allow you to do that. Result you start educating your child the day he/she takes birth. 

Every child is beautiful; full of excitement what is happening around; full of curiosity. His/her inbuilt process will help the child to develop their own. Out of ignorance; and out of extreme care, in order to help the child; you destroy the fabric; and this has happened since ages; and the result; see the unrest around.

It seems entire humanity has missed something. So much unrest; suffering; everyone is in a hurry to go somewhere not known to him/her; everybody wants to achieve something without knowing what? 

The most powerful part of your body is your mind; you misused this power, and you created atom. This mind power was inbuilt in you to understand you; and you did just the reverse; you started invading God; you started invading Nature; and forget invading and understanding, you cannot control natural calamity which keeps destroying you. 

Someone educated you when you were growing; your society educated when you became an adult; and result; you understood everything but Love. Love is the central part, which has no means; no reason; no purpose. But you are taught to have a purpose; you have been taught that without purpose and without a goal your life is useless. 

So, in order to make your life useful you started setting a goal, a purpose for you to lead your life in happiness and peace; and the result; entire peace vanished from the earth. Because you were taught, the way you teach your children hoe to grow, what to do and what not to do. The natural process of growing up was killed by you.

Without understanding you keep trying to make your child understand everything. It is certainly because the destruction of the natural process of developing there is so much unrest around. Just watch your child growing; stand behind them, not in front of them. Take care of them delicately; not with force. They will develop of their own.

And when they grow, give them freedom to choose their carrier; their life. He/She has been gifted with the unique quality of growing on their own; they took birth with that quality, how to develop and use the natural instinct.

Sometimes you do believe in in inner instinct; sixth sense; inner voice. What is that; this is the same process of developing which is built inside you; since the day you took birth. Your child wants to play in the rain; do not stop this is natural, every child wants to enjoy the rain; now do not start keeping fear into them, they are tender; there is no harm if they play in the rain; why a poor child born on street never become sick playing in the rain?

In school, colleges too they should be free to choose their carrier. Every child will choose his/her carrier as per their natural inclination. Now you are not enforcing yourself in their decision and start telling what they should choose. You will be telling according to your nature. likes and dislikes; and the child might differ, so do not enforce; let them select their life; they are free to choose Freedom will make them bold; freedom will make the fearless. Your duty towards them is to always with your all means, stand behind the; not in front of them; all the best. 

Ashoka